I didn't want to announce this until it was official, or even really mention it..just, because.. Anyway, Eddie got a job.
Not just any job. An AMAZING job. It has health benefits (yay insurance) and lots of other job benefits. Not to mention the money.. but that is beside the point. The only real down side is, the job is located in Corpus Christi, Texas.
That is right. Texas.
Whaaaat? Yes, I was feeling that exact same way last week when it became a remote possibility. I was panicked, and anxious and basically flat out refusing to go. Corpus Christi is even farther from home.. and home is where I wanted to be.
But sometimes, it really isn't that simple. Anyone who has been watching the economic climate (and I have) in NC, knows that it is not good.And contrary to belief, it is not easy for a veteran to find a job. Sure, we could move home and both get crappy jobs, never do anything but work and I would still not be able to finish school. And there is the issue of we.need.insurance. Jonah has therapies that are very expensive. Nothing that Eddie has been offered at home even remotely touches the opportunity in Texas. Texas is by far, much less impacted by the recession than pretty much every other state. And that was the deciding factor. Talk about being caught in a catch-22.
This was not an easy decision for us, please bear this in mind.. We have spent many sleepless nights and afternoons talking over and rehashing all of the options. It is very difficult to accept the fact that the one place I didn't want to be, is in fact the place that I really need to be. Not for me, but for my family unit as a whole.
So for now, the plan is for me (and Eddie for a bit) to still come home for a little while. Eddie has a probationary training period and we have decided to put our things in storage here and for me and the boys to come home. It wont be forever, just until we are absolutely sure that this is the job that will work for us. When that happens, I will go back to Texas and we will officially move to Corpus Christi. I still plan to be home within the next month. But instead of staying for good, I will only be for a little while. And that is better than not at all.
Also, a bonus.. I will have more opportunities to travel home. AND, I will be in Corpus Christi, so anyone who is willing, is welcome to come and visit. Who wouldn't want a nice vacation on the beautiful gulf coast with free lodging??